Preschool · Deciding

Which kind of preschool fits your child?

Preschool philosophies get marketed as if one is correct. None is. Each suits some children well and others poorly, and the match matters more than the method.

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By Tammy Gold, LCSW
Author of Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin)
Tammy Gold, LCSW, MSW
Columbia University
20 years in childcare
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Match to your child

A child who needs lots of movement and noise may chafe in a quiet Montessori room. A child who's easily overwhelmed may struggle in a loud, free-flowing play space. A slow-to-warm child often benefits from small groups and consistent teachers above all else.

Whatever the philosophy, the strongest predictors are the same: warm, stable teachers who know your child, small groups, and time for play.

Practical factors

Half-day versus full-day, location relative to your commute, and whether the program feeds into a particular elementary school. These often decide it once the philosophy question narrows the list.

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