Preschool · Keeping It Working

When your child is struggling at preschool

The teacher mentioned a concern, or your child is unhappy, or something just seems off. Here's how to figure out what's going on without panicking or dismissing it.

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By Tammy Gold, LCSW
Author of Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin)
Tammy Gold, LCSW, MSW
Columbia University
20 years in childcare
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Common reasons children struggle

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Work with the teacher

Ask for specifics: when it happens, what precedes it, what helps. Teachers see your child in a setting you don't, and specifics turn a vague concern into something you can act on.

Share what you know from home — what calms your child, recent changes, what works at bedtime. The best outcomes come when home and school use the same approach.

When to seek more help

If concerns persist, involve multiple settings, or touch on speech, motor skills, or social connection, raise them with your pediatrician. Early support is far more effective than waiting, and asking early is care, not overreaction.

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