Daycare · Deciding

Is your child ready for daycare?

Readiness isn't one age. It's a match between a particular child and a particular kind of setting — and most of the anxiety parents feel comes from asking the question too generally.

Tammy Gold, LCSWSecrets of the Nanny Whisperer by Tammy Gold, published by Penguin
By Tammy Gold, LCSW
Author of Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin)
Tammy Gold, LCSW, MSW
Columbia University
20 years in childcare
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What actually predicts an easier start

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Temperament changes the answer

A socially confident, adaptable child often does well in group care early. A slow-to-warm or highly sensitive child may do better starting later, starting part-time, or starting in a small home-based program before a large center.

That isn't a verdict on your child. It's a fit question, and the same child who struggles in a loud twenty-child room can thrive in a quiet group of six.

If you're unsure

Part-time is the most underused option. Two or three mornings a week lets a child build familiarity without an all-day stretch, and tells you a great deal about how they'll handle more.

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Not sure your child is ready?

Readiness depends on your particular child. A Care Map call maps temperament, routines, and family needs so you decide on evidence rather than worry.

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