Senior Care · Companionship

Hiring a companion for an elderly parent

For many older adults, the first real need isn't medical. It's loneliness, a missed meal, a skipped walk, an empty afternoon. A good companion changes a parent's whole week — if the match is right.

Tammy Gold, LCSWSecrets of the Nanny Whisperer by Tammy Gold, published by Penguin
By Tammy Gold, LCSW
Author of Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin)
Tammy Gold, LCSW, MSW
Columbia University
20 years in childcare placement & training

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What companion care covers

Companion or personal care?

Companions generally don't provide hands-on help like bathing, dressing, or toileting — that's personal care, which calls for different training. If your parent needs both now, or is likely to soon, hire for the higher level from the start rather than changing caregivers later.

Tammy Gold, LCSW, licensed clinical social workerSecrets of the Nanny Whisperer by Tammy Gold, published by Penguin
20 YEARS HELPING FAMILIES CHOOSE CARE

Guidance from a therapist who has spent 20 years helping families choose caregivers

Tammy Gold, LCSW, is the author of Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin) and the founder of the Care Map Method™. She helps families define what a parent needs, evaluate caregivers and agencies, and set up care that lasts.

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What matters most in a companion

Introduce them gently

Many parents resist “a caregiver” but welcome “a friend who helps with errands.” How you frame the first visit often decides whether it works. How to introduce a caregiver · When a parent refuses help.

What Tammy does with you

Book an hour and Tammy works through whichever step you’re on — with you, and where it helps, directly with your candidate.

Define the job
Duties, hours, and the kind of person your family needs — written down before you look.
Interview candidates
Tammy joins or leads the interview as a second set of eyes and ears.
Check references
Targeted calls that get past “she was great.”
Plan the trial
A structured trial shift, and a debrief on what it showed you.
Create the work agreement
Duties, schedule, pay terms, time off, and house rules in writing.
Onboard well
A first-30-days plan, set up with your new caregiver on the call.
A NEUTRAL EXPERT ON YOUR SIDE

Find the right companion for your parent

One hour with Tammy to define the role, vet the candidate, and plan the introduction.

EXPERT SESSION · 60 MINUTES

$189

  • Match the companion to your parent's personality
  • Join the interview and reference calls
  • Plan the first visits so your parent says yes
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The Nanny Hiring Kit

Screening call, reference questions, clinical interview, and trial-day checklist.

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Tammy is not an agency and has no affiliation with, or financial interest in, any agency or caregiver you use. She provides independent guidance; decisions remain your family’s. Legal, tax, visa, and licensing questions belong with the appropriate professional or agency.