When your baby won't stop crying

Run the checklist first

• Hunger — including cluster feeding, which looks like constant hunger and is normal
• Discomfort — diaper, temperature, a hair wrapped around a toe, a tag or seam
• Tiredness — overtired babies cry harder and settle worse
• Overstimulation — too much light, noise, handling, or a long day out
• The need to be held — not a bad habit in the first months, a biological need

The soothing sequence

Work through it in order rather than switching every thirty seconds: swaddle, side or stomach hold in your arms, shushing at the volume of the crying, swinging or rhythmic motion, and sucking — breast, bottle, or pacifier. Most babies respond to a combination, and most parents give up on each step too fast.

Consistency matters more than technique. A baby soothed the same way every time learns the sequence means calm is coming.

Colic, and when to call

Colic is generally described as crying for more than three hours a day, more than three days a week, for more than three weeks — in a baby who is otherwise healthy and growing. It typically peaks around six weeks and eases by three to four months.

Call your pediatrician for a cry that sounds different from the usual — high-pitched, weak, or paired with fever, vomiting, or poor feeding. And a hard truth worth saying plainly: if you feel yourself losing control, put the baby down safely in the crib and step out of the room. A crying baby is safe. A shaken baby is not. Call someone.

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