Newborn sleep isn't a skill you teach on day one — it's a biological rhythm that develops. Knowing which stage you're in tells you what will help and what will just exhaust you.
A newborn's sleep cycle runs about 50 minutes, roughly half an adult's, and their stomachs empty every two to three hours. Waking is not a problem to fix in the first months — it's the system working correctly.
What changes around three to four months is that sleep begins to consolidate. That's when routine starts to matter, and when what you do consistently begins to shape what your baby expects.
Talk to your pediatrician if your baby is consistently hard to rouse for feeds, isn't gaining weight, or if sleep changes suddenly alongside fever or feeding refusal. And if you are running on empty yourself, that's a real reason to get support — exhausted parents make everything harder, and it's the most common thing I see in my practice.
Tammy filmed this segment as the on-camera parenting expert for Howcast's newborn care series.
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