Choosing a setting

Daycare vs preschool: what's actually different, and which fits

The names overlap, and many programs do both. The real differences are the age range, the hours, and how the day is structured.

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The usual differences

DaycarePreschool
AgesOften from infancyUsually from about 2½ or 3 to 5
HoursFull day, year-roundOften school-day or part-day, sometimes school-year only
DayCare and play, with learning built inMore structured learning and group time
PurposeCare while parents workPreparation for kindergarten

Many daycares have preschool rooms, and many preschools offer extended care. Ask what a specific program actually does.

How to decide

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Moving from daycare to preschool

A move between programs is a transition for your child, even if it's down the street. Visit together first, talk about it in advance, and keep home routines steady. See choosing a preschool and easing drop-off.

Common questions

Is preschool better than daycare?

Neither is better in general. A good program of either kind, matched to your child and your schedule, is what matters.

Can my child stay in daycare until kindergarten?

Yes. Many daycares have pre-K rooms. Ask how their oldest classroom prepares children for school.

When should I apply?

Earlier than you think in many areas. Ask each program about waitlists and enrollment dates.

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