Weather, prices, debt, a parent who won’t let go of the operation, a kid who may not want it: farm stress isn’t one thing. And there often isn’t time, or a therapist nearby, to deal with any of it.
I’m Tammy Gold, licensed in Iowa as an independent-level social worker (LISW #141693). I see adults anywhere in Iowa by video, including from the farm.
Online sessions for adults located in California, New Jersey, Oregon, Maine or Iowa. Alma checks your specific plan before you book.
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A 30-second welcome from Tammy. Watch on its own page
Sessions are by video, so you can meet from the kitchen table, the shop or a truck at the edge of a field, and schedule around planting and harvest.
For legal or financial questions, Iowa Concern, run by Iowa State University Extension and Outreach, offers free, confidential help 24 hours a day at 800-447-1985, including stress counselors. Therapy can work alongside it.
This is individual psychotherapy with a licensed clinician. It isn’t coaching. Couples and family sessions are a different format that insurance may treat differently, so ask before you book if you’re interested in a joint session.
If you need help now: If you’re thinking about suicide or harming yourself, call or text 988 now, or call 911. Iowa Concern’s free 24-hour line is 800-447-1985. If drinking or drugs have become hard to control, SAMHSA’s National Helpline is 1-800-662-4357.
Sessions combine a standard clinical assessment with the Care Map Method™, the framework I use to look at your sleep and health, your feelings, your relationships and your daily demands, then build one practical change at a time. More about therapy in Iowa.
Write down the three worries taking up the most room in your head right now. Next to each, write one thing you can do about it this week, or “nothing yet.” Then pick one action and do it. Getting worries out of your head and onto paper makes them easier to carry.
Sessions are online by video for adults who are physically located in Iowa, or another state where I’m licensed, during each session. I’m licensed in Iowa (LISW #141693), and also in California, New Jersey, Oregon and Maine.
Through Alma, I’m in network with Aetna, Cigna, Carelon, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, and Optum plans including UnitedHealthcare, Oscar and Oxford. Coverage depends on your specific plan, not only the insurance company’s name. Alma checks it before your first session, including any copay or deductible, and handles the billing. How using insurance works.

Columbia University–trained therapist · University of Pennsylvania graduate
I’m a licensed clinical social worker (California LCSW #136364; New Jersey LCSW #44SC05528100; Oregon LCSW #L16530; Maine LCSW #LC26593), a licensed independent social worker in Iowa (LISW #141693) and the founder of the Care Map Method™. I’ve worked directly with families for more than 20 years. My book, Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin), is about finding and working with a nanny; my therapy work draws on my broader clinical training.
I’ve also shared parenting and family guidance as an expert for outlets including the Today Show, Good Morning America and The New York Times. Press and media.
Therapy isn’t only for people in crisis. Sessions are practical: we figure out what’s going on and what you can do about it, and you leave each one with something specific to try.
These pages describe individual therapy. Couples sessions are a different format; ask before you book.
Those belong with the right professional. Iowa Concern (800-447-1985) offers free legal and financial information and referrals.
We can plan around the seasons: more sessions when you have time, fewer when you don’t.
I see clients through Alma, and through Alma I’m in network with Aetna, Cigna, Carelon, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, and Optum plans including UnitedHealthcare, Oscar and Oxford. Coverage still depends on your specific plan. Alma checks it before your first appointment, including any copay or deductible. Please share plan and health details through Alma’s secure intake, not by text or email.
Yes, or in another state where I’m licensed. Sessions are online by video, and you need to be physically in Iowa, California, New Jersey, Oregon or Maine during each one. If you’ll be traveling, tell me ahead of time so we can plan around it.
Check whether your plan covers sessions and see my open times on Alma.
Check Insurance and Availability on Alma →General questions: tammy@caremapmethod.com · Text a general booking question: (818) 308-1358
Please don’t send health or insurance details by text or email. Alma’s secure intake is the place for those.
If you’re in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988, or call 911. Online therapy can’t respond to emergencies.