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Online therapy · CA · NJ · OR · ME

Online therapy with Tammy Gold, LCSW

Individual therapy by video for adults in California, New Jersey, Oregon and Maine, for anxiety, depression, postpartum struggles, burnout, grief, and family and caregiving stress.

Through Alma, I’m in network with Aetna, Cigna, Carelon, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts and Optum plans. Alma checks your plan before you book.

Online sessions for adults located in California, New Jersey, Oregon or Maine. Alma checks your specific plan before you book.

Check Insurance and Availability on Alma →

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Tammy Gold, LCSWSecrets of the Nanny Whisperer by Tammy Gold, published by Penguin
By Tammy Gold, LCSW
Author of Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin)
Tammy Gold, LCSW
MSW, Columbia University
Licensed in CA · NJ · OR · ME
In network through Alma

Choose a topic

Anxiety
Worry, overthinking, sleepless nights
Depression
Low mood, flatness, no energy
Postpartum
New moms, anxiety, intrusive thoughts
Moms
Mental load, burnout, resentment
Back to work after baby
Guilt, childcare, the first weeks
Burnout
Work stress, dread, exhaustion
Grief
Loss, and grief before a loss
Caregiver burnout
Caring for a parent or partner
Sandwich generation
Kids and aging parents at once
Women
Every stage of life
Men
Stress, anger, relationships

Choose your state

Sessions are online by video for adults who are physically located in one of these states during each session.

Licenses: California LCSW #136364; New Jersey LCSW #44SC05528100; Oregon LCSW #L16530; Maine LCSW #LC26593.

Using insurance

Through Alma, I’m in network with Aetna, Cigna, Carelon, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, and Optum plans including UnitedHealthcare, Oscar and Oxford. Alma checks your specific plan before your first session and shows an estimate of your cost.

What therapy with me is, and isn’t

This is individual psychotherapy for adults with a licensed clinical social worker. Sessions combine a standard clinical assessment with practical work between sessions.

It’s separate from my other services. Care Map coaching (help hiring a nanny, choosing a daycare or planning a parent’s care) isn’t therapy and isn’t billed to insurance. I don’t do custody evaluations or mediation, and I’m not a placement agency.

How the Care Map Method™ shapes our sessions

The Care Map Method™ is the framework I use to organize our work, alongside a standard clinical assessment. It isn’t a separate tested treatment. It keeps four kinds of needs in view:

BIOLOGICAL

Sleep, health, energy and stress load.

EMOTIONAL

What you feel, and what you fear.

SOCIAL

Your relationships and support.

ENVIRONMENTAL

Home, schedule, money and daily demands.

Then we work in four steps:

  1. Map the emotion and trigger. We take one recent hard moment and slow it down.
  2. Match the need with a strategy. We name the need underneath and choose one strategy that fits it.
  3. Merge the strategy into daily life. We put the strategy into a real day of your week.
  4. Manage communication and responses. We practice the conversations involved, review what happened and adjust.
Tammy Gold, LCSW, licensed clinical social worker
ABOUT YOUR THERAPIST

Tammy Gold, MSW, LCSW, CEC

Columbia University–trained therapist · University of Pennsylvania graduate

I’m a licensed clinical social worker (California LCSW #136364; New Jersey LCSW #44SC05528100; Oregon LCSW #L16530; Maine LCSW #LC26593) and the founder of the Care Map Method™. I’ve worked directly with families for more than 20 years. My book, Secrets of the Nanny Whisperer (Penguin), is about finding and working with a nanny; my therapy work draws on my broader clinical training.

I’ve also shared parenting and family guidance as an expert for outlets including the Today Show, Good Morning America and The New York Times. Press and media.

Questions people ask

How do I start?

Check your insurance and my availability on Alma, then book. For a general question first, email tammy@caremapmethod.com or text (818) 308-1358.

What happens in the first session?

We talk about what brings you in, your history, your support and your safety. You leave with one small, specific thing to try.

Do you see teenagers or children?

These pages describe therapy for adults. For a question about a teen, email before booking.

Can you prescribe medication?

No. I’m a licensed clinical social worker. If medication might help, your doctor or a psychiatrist can assess that, and with your permission I can coordinate with them.

Do you take my insurance?

I see clients through Alma, and through Alma I’m in network with Aetna, Cigna, Carelon, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, and Optum plans including UnitedHealthcare, Oscar and Oxford. Coverage still depends on your specific plan. Alma checks it before your first appointment, including any copay or deductible. Please share plan and health details through Alma’s secure intake, not by text or email.

Where do I need to be during sessions?

Sessions are online by video, and you need to be physically in California, New Jersey, Oregon or Maine during each one. Your insurance plan can come from another state; what matters for licensing is where you are during the session. Alma checks whether your plan covers sessions with me.

Ready when you are

Check whether your plan covers sessions and see my open times on Alma.

Check Insurance and Availability on Alma →

General questions: tammy@caremapmethod.com · Text a general booking question: (818) 308-1358

Please don’t send health or insurance details by text or email. Alma’s secure intake is the place for those.

If you’re in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988, or call 911. Online therapy can’t respond to emergencies.