Fees and terms

Nanny agency fees: how they work and what to get in writing

There's no standard nanny agency fee. It varies by city, agency and type of placement. What matters is knowing exactly what you're paying for, when it's due, and what happens if the match ends early.

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How agencies usually charge

Ask each agency to show you the math on a real example: your hours, your pay range, the total fee and the due date.

What triggers the fee

Agreements differ on the moment you owe the fee. It might be when you make an offer, when the nanny accepts, on the start date, or after a trial period. Many agreements also cover candidates the agency introduced who you hire later, sometimes months later. Know that window before you interview anyone.

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What the fee usually doesn't cover

Get these in writing before you pay

More on reading the agency agreement and the replacement guarantee.

How to compare agencies on cost

The lowest fee isn't always the better value. Compare what each one actually does: Does a staff member interview candidates in person? Who calls references? Are background checks included? Will they help with onboarding? A fee that includes real screening can cost less than a cheap one that leaves the work to you.

Common questions

Is the agency fee negotiable?

Sometimes. It's reasonable to ask, especially about payment timing or the trial period. Get any change in writing.

Do I pay the nanny through the agency?

In most placements, you are the nanny's employer and pay the nanny directly, often through a household payroll service. Some agencies partner with payroll providers. Ask how it works for yours.

Can Tammy tell me if an agreement is fair?

She can walk through what the terms mean in practice and what to ask the agency. She isn't a lawyer, so for legal review of a contract, consult an attorney.

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